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MrDarcy · 07-30-2009, 06:37 AM

Hi guys!

Need a girls opinion here. I've found finally found the woman of my dreams (after looking for many years) and I want to make sure I don't lose her.

I met this girl on a dating website and after a few e-mail exchanges we agreed to meet up. We ended up going for coffee and spent the best part of three hours chatting away and talking about all things in general.

On the surface she seemed really into the conversation and comfortable in my presence. There was no doubt she was a little nervous, as was I, but the conversation seemed to flow naturally and it looked like she was having a good time.

We finished off coffee and I offered to walk her to her car. We then hit that 'awkward' point where neither of us knew how to say goodbye properly. I really wanted to kiss her but it did'nt seem like the right moment so I gave her a hug and peck on the cheek and we parted our separate ways.

Anyway, I asked her if she wanted to meet up later that night and she said she couldn't because she was meeting up with friends. Initially I thought this was a genuine excuse but now I'm thinking it could have been a way to politely decline seeing me further.

I gave her a call a few days later and we ended chatting for 30 mins talking about all sorts of things which I thought was pretty cool. I had to end the conversation because I was about to start gym class but I promised her I'd call again in the next few days to arrange another date.

My question is...how would I be able to tell if she's genuinely interested in seeing me again? What do you think will be the signs?

From a guys perspective it's REALLY HARD to tell how she feels about the situation.

Thanks in advance,

Mr Darcy.

07-30-2009, 06:37 AM	#1
MrDarcy Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: I can see London from here Posts: 7	Girl Advice Needed - Is she into me? Hi guys! Need a girls opinion here. I've found finally found the woman of my dreams (after looking for many years) and I want to make sure I don't lose her. I met this girl on a dating website and after a few e-mail exchanges we agreed to meet up. We ended up going for coffee and spent the best part of three hours chatting away and talking about all things in general. On the surface she seemed really into the conversation and comfortable in my presence. There was no doubt she was a little nervous, as was I, but the conversation seemed to flow naturally and it looked like she was having a good time. We finished off coffee and I offered to walk her to her car. We then hit that 'awkward' point where neither of us knew how to say goodbye properly. I really wanted to kiss her but it did'nt seem like the right moment so I gave her a hug and peck on the cheek and we parted our separate ways. Anyway, I asked her if she wanted to meet up later that night and she said she couldn't because she was meeting up with friends. Initially I thought this was a genuine excuse but now I'm thinking it could have been a way to politely decline seeing me further. I gave her a call a few days later and we ended chatting for 30 mins talking about all sorts of things which I thought was pretty cool. I had to end the conversation because I was about to start gym class but I promised her I'd call again in the next few days to arrange another date. My question is...how would I be able to tell if she's genuinely interested in seeing me again? What do you think will be the signs? From a guys perspective it's REALLY HARD to tell how she feels about the situation. Thanks in advance, Mr Darcy.