Doesn't sound good. What does he do for you? Does he have a green card? Does he have a wife and kids in Mexico? A lot of them do you know, that's why they came to work in another country, so they can send money back to support their families( at least that is the case in my state). I don't know why you think being Mexican or any other nationality would ensure romantacism? I think is coming more from you than him?
Your last sentence set off my alarm bells though, you thought he loved spending time with you because he has no family here. This sounds like you may be setting yourself up, like your self esteem is low and you thought someone without connections would be lonely enough to want to be with you, if you did enough for him. This isn't healthy, you are worth more than that. By all means be a good neighbor but give yourself more value than this. He has said it pretty plainly in words and actions.
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