I wish you were closer too! I think we would get along great! You have been so supportive and helpful! I am so glad you are here! Yes, his name is Don, and yes rollercoaster is about right. Yes, I pretty much know that no matter what he has "doomed" his marriage by admitting to this, but it is a matter of if he will realize what he has done and want to come back, or if the guilt and pressure will make him stay. I just know that I will fight to make sure that if he wants to see his daughter that he can be a "big boy" and come and get her or I will bring her down there, his family need not be involved even though they said they won't let him even see me like that. I don't trust his daughters because like I prob. mentioned before have drug problems and had their kids taken away and given to their parents and his wife obviously prob. thinks I'm the devil so I don't trust her either. My sister thinks that since there isn't a restraining order or anything and child abuse wasn't an issue that the court would prob. just tell him to suck it up and walk it off and if he wants to see her we can be the ones to do the pick up and drop off even though his wife and daughters don't want that, ya know? Well, I better go. Haveing a rough day, but tonight is getting a bit better. Talk to you all soon!