Well I did that to an x bf once, we'd been splitzo for about 6 months and he swong by my place for a look to see what was going on. We talked he left and on the way out the door I hugged him and told him I was sorry and he was puzzled and he left. I was sorry so many hands in life had abused him that he never knew what a gentle hand was.
People who don't process trauma in their life project it onto others. We all do it but there are people who are extreme at it.
Your brother sounds like he is doing this if he is being all nasty to anyone to close he can abuse.
Some people are hurt so deep they don't know anyother way to live but to hurt themselves and others.
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