It's hard just don't act on it let me tell you why. I've been in a relationship 11 yrs.now and out of the blue the guy i loved but we never dated contacts me on classmates.com anyway's i couldn't believe it 26 yrs later and i have thought about him and dreamed about him all the time. Anyway's he's divorced we hook up been seeing him for 5 months even spending time with his son who i got attached 2.Tells me all this how i'm his dream gurl he's alway's loved me 2 etc,etc so i tell my family my daughter i want to leave my current relationship my family is upset with me my daughter cause they said i'm making the biggest mistake i don't know anything about him anymore.well 2 day's ago i found out he's seeing some other gurl 2 .He won't answer my calls or e-mails i am so devasted been crying for 2 day's and trying to hide it from my family i feel like the biggest idiot they were right i got played. So stay with your husband and forget him.