Hi. I am a mom of 3 boys....my husband and I didn't wait at all. Although we love our children dearly, we sometimes wish we had taken some time to be married and "alone" you know - now we can't have any alone time without getting a sitter (which a whole other problem) but I think that you should listen to your heart, not your wallet or whatever else might be holding you back if your hearts are saying yes. Just my opinion - hope it helps!