Drama-

These posts are REAL! Many are just telling it like it is....Not saying your situations and outcomes have been similar....I wish you the best in this sitauation, but feel I must continuously remind you...you are better and stronger than any especailly this situation. Letz go....get ur mind right! Don't let this situation defeat you. Hold you head high...right now it is what it is..deal with today, not tommorow..for tomorrow will take care of itself. Continue to pray for him/his family and for yourself....guidance and strength. I know you do not want to hear that but put yourself in "that" family shoes. They are NOT the bad guys, "HE is." He created this situation and involved you. Wholeheartedly, you knew when you got into this situation what you were getting into (like I did), but hoped for the best because things were going so well. Well, at least I (we) thought. It is easier for me to say "forget about it and leave it alone", but I know it is not that easy. Be productive and stay busy at at times that way your mind IS ALWAYS OCCUPIED and never free to wander about "him". Use the post(s) as a learning tool and MOVE ON!

In his defense, I cannot say he is not feeling hurt, because I do not know him; hwr, since he has not contacted you I am begininng to wonder about his character. Based on age, he should be mature enough to at least give you the benefit or call you to inform you of what has been going on IF he cared or had any intention of leaving. There are many ways to handle situations and he has not dealt with this situation in an appropriate manner. "I" feel as though 'HE" was "NOT" good enough in the first place to have "YOU", but since you have given him the time he should feel priviledged. You are better than that... hold your head high. Good luck with everything and remember stay strong....YOUR KIDS NEED U!