05-20-2007, 03:18 PM
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When one is doing group counselling the new woman
will always start off with; "My story is different," and
then proceed to tell the same story that the five other
members have told.
The giggles start and the others put in their little
bit, so where one might use some act the H. performed,
from spending the weekend building cabinets another
might use the fact he would suck her toes, or clean
the fridge.
And where one would point to the fact he took her
fishing with him, another would point to how he
spend a weekend with her in New York, or took
her to Disney Land.
It's always the same, tho' each Other Woman thinks,
until she hears the next story, that it is different.
Some women live in delusions for months, some for
years. Some believe in the fantasy man who used
to screw her, dismissing the sour faced guy who
sneers in Court.
"His family made him do it..."
"He's only doing it to fool them..."
"He'll come back to me..."
Usually, I play the 'bad cop', I'm the one who points
out the 'text book', and tells them all the ugly things
they don't want to hear.
They hate me, I'm the .
When they start to like me, we know we've made the
breakthrough.
I've known mistresses who have hung around through
the ups and downs for twenty years. One was an
on again off again for the first fifteen.
She's in her seventies now, still 'Miss', while he is
still with his wife.
She kept believing that he loved her until she was
fifty and he said he was going back to his wife but
instead hooked up with a twenty four year old.
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