This is all out of no where too. If there was any way I could take him to the cleaners I would, but we didn't own anything. Some people say I can get alamony because he cheated, but NJ is a no fault state so I don't think that would work. I put myself into almost 15k in debt because he controled the finances and I had no $$ when I left and needed to get an apt and furniture and stuff like that. I'm going to call his HR department tomorrow first thing and make sure it's noted that I did not give persmission and will not for him to cancel, and then I'll call the ins company too for the same reason. The one medication I take each day, without ins is 600 a month, there is no generic to replace it. And right now i'm taking a couple of others to see what's going to happen with this lung thing. I'm going to try and find a lawyer to consult with, this is just insane and down right cruel! Over the past couple of weeks he has called me a Wh*&& amonst other things becuase I started dating, but he's the one that doesn't want to be with me, so apparantly I'm supposed to sit here and be alone for the rest of my life waiting for him. He can do no wrong, he can have his relationship with his mistress, but if I even talk to a guy then i'm a . I don't know, i am really sick of it. The stress effects me physically and this all needs to stop.
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