If he had a problem in the past and is engaging in behavior such as hiding it and becoming depressed and argumentative, then it sounds like it is still a problem. Obviously you wouldn't be thinking of leaving over this if it wasn't a problem. Any idea what triggered this? You might contact AA, they have a program for spouses and families of alcoholics. You may find that helpful.
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