This is kind of irrelevant, but I just found it necessary to vent about the concept of cheating. It's something that I will never fully understand. I think someone else has said it in this thread, but if it's going to happen I'd just prefer the person to leave than be cheated on. If a person is so unfulfilled with someone, why don't they just break up with them and start over with someone who COULD make them happy? Then again, there's always the idea of still having someone at home waiting for you when you come back from having your fun with someone else. I guess that's why they call it "cheating".
I have to admit, I've been guilty of it once. Just once. It's pretty stupid because I'd been with the guy for 3 weeks or something, and he was one of those guys where that was his limit. And I just knew it was over anyway, and I ended up sleeping with an ex. He never knew about it. But my god, that guilt was incredible, even given all the stuff about knowing the relationship was done. And 3 weeks! I've had Mentos that have lasted longer. Still, how someone can cheat and think it's okay, not feel horrible at all....that's the part I'll never get.
Okay, rant over
