05-30-2007, 09:36 AM
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Junior Member
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 17
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Wow, This has bothered you just by reading the large amount of text I can see that.
Reading it did make me wonder how old you are and I don't mean that in a take the way what I mean is Something like this really shouldn't bother you come on now! .
I'm 27 and have been through similar situations,but my advice to you would be to be the adult out of all your mates. Your Gran is right I would also suggest that you give her the ?20 back but don't brake you back to to it. When you have it then pay her back. She may have said that she would pay for you but in a real world nothing comes for free unless i'ts unconditional. freinds come and go and each one that passes we should learn something that can enable us to grow and mature. and after all you did mention that you both had wine and you can say things that you don't mean or act out of character. I can understand what your boyfreinds suggests but I would only go that route if I wanted to be petty and y.
You said that you wanted to have it out with her, then why not. You don't have to fight with her. Just simply explain that it was never the gift or the card that you wanted but the thought would have been nice as she showed thought on your last birthday with a choice to buy a gift or come out. Tell her how you really feel and I'm sure that if she is your true friend she will see your point. remember though that people change and time can be a healer or a breaker. If someone isn't making you happy wheather a freind or a boyfriend or family then I myself find i't better to walk away. BUT NEVER WITHOUT TRYING FIRST. Good luck hun.
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