Well, bf likes doing that too and always asks if i mind or if i find it degrading, as he wouldn't want me to feel anything like that. I personally don't mind it at all; if it makes him feel good then it's good enough for me and I know he respects me. I just believe that most things can be allowed in the bedroom as long as both agree. You don't always have to connect the rest of the relationship with what you do to each other during sex. Some times it can only be about a fantasy or role play without it reflecting any feelings or thoughts towards you.
I agree that it's a common fantasy but I also agree that you shouldn't be forced into anything that makes you uncomfortable. If you are 100% against it then I guess he'll just have to manage with watching it in a porn clip instead.
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