I suspect because you were "so" close is why you miss him "so" much and that's natural.
The guy started rumors about you, because he wanted this guy's woman, well he did it all the wrong way, because it backfired on him, your friend I assume is still with his girlfriend..
Guys are guys, it's almost like if they believe a woman at that age, over a mate, then all mates will call him a and basically he will have no friends.. Survival.
But, I also tend to think that due to your age, non-consential and all that, I would imagine to where you live, that he chose to stay on the path he was on.
Your problem is you don't have closure, you did nothing wrong and can't ever tell him again of those facts and prove them.
Check facebook see if he's on there, check with a friend, of a friend, you can find him eventually and send him a letter as a "friend" and let him know once and for all you didn't lie.
At least you can get closure even if he never replies and if he doesn't then he seriously isn't a friend you want in life is he.
Sometimes, people come into our lives for a reason, and there are many reasons but usually we learn by it and grow..
This may have just been one of those situations.. The reasons why you met and were friends are no longer valid... There's no more purpose.
I imagine he was your first crush too though and until you meet someone again, that you really like, he'll probably stay on your mind.
Welcome to being a female.
CW
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Women are Angels
And when someone breaks our wings....
We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick...
We are flexible like that ....
White Witch.
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