Originally Posted by Miya

That's a difficult place to be in. When we were living in India I had a couple of friends faced with an arranged marriage who said they didn't really love their fiance. Cultures have different ideas of marriage and companionship than others and frankly a lot of research has been done to show that these marriages last longer than "love" marriages postulating that these couple do not come together for superficial reasons or elaborate expectations.

Anyhoo, have you tried just sitting down and talking to him about it? Find out who he really is and share your thoughts and feelings with him openly and honestly? Perhaps you've tried that already and if so, my apologies.

I wish you both the best.