Focus on yourself!
Move on. Don't drop everything because of this guy. You deserve a lot better - but only if you realize that. You work on yourself and keep growing on your own. Be that whole person that you can be and you'll find that whole guy for you. Don't be desperate - there are plenty of things that you can do. Keep yourself busy. Do a lot of physical activities such as aerobics, yoga, pilates, dancing, hiking, bicycling, etc. Any interests that you have - tap on those. You'll be surprised at what great a person that you are once you focus on yourself and not on him nor any man. Once you're there, men will notice you - you won't need to flash some special effects. They will come, believe me.
Good luck.
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