Ok, look up grief support online. there are sooooo many things out there. Does she use the computer. After I lost my Mom last yr, I gained 45lbs (biggest I've ever been) and barely left the house. I didn't want to face people who wanted to pitty me. I still have really really bad days and I know I'm clinically depressed but online grief support groups have helped. I to complained about my weight but never did anything about it. I've always had bad anckles and since I've gained weight they've gotten worse to the point it does hurt to walk. I sprain my right ankle at least once a month now. Once I got help with the grief I started finding my motivation. Its not going to happen overnight but I think she needs to talk to peopl who understand. Talking to people who lost a parent to cancer really helped me. Maybe she needs to speak with other widows. they would be seen as friends and not professional help. I never went to therapy because I felt it would make me look crazy
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 Krystal
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