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Originally Posted by Tex
I can sometimes turn into a big 'ol teddy bear. I like to cuddle and snuggle, kiss her neck, stroke her hair, caress her body, and do little silly things like peck her on the shoulder or play with her knee. It's my way of showing affection and I find it fun, but I also want her to enjoy it of course.
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Originally Posted by OG612
You are being overly touchy. Peel back a little bit. . .
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You got a lot of supportive feedback from some of the other posters about how the right person would appreciate the level of affection you want to give. That's all absolutely true. Still, OG's giving you some good advice. Everyone has preferences, but when multiple girlfriends tell you that you've crossed the line with yours, it's possible that your preferences might not be in line with the prevailing norms.
If you have an extreme preference, one that lies near the far end of a bell curve, a willingness to recognize that preference for what it is and be flexible about it will go a long way when you deal with people whose preferences are more towards the center of the curve.