The first thing I'd say that defines a good relatinship would be mutual respect...if you don't truly respect your partner, it will make it really hard to love them through all of life's challenges. This entails a lot and to me is probably the most important aspect.
2nd - The ability to compromise.
3rd - Similar beliefs regarding the big picture. I.E. political, ethical, moral ideas. Also regarding your wants and desires in life....kids, careers, aspirations and the such.
4th - Similar sexual preferences.
5th - The understanding that you two don't need eachother...understanding you WANT each other. If one thinks they need the other, it will make inequalities surface in the relationship which will break it apart eventually.
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