It sounds like intimate stalking. I have a friend at work who's wife does it to him all the time. She even went to the extreme of stalking all his female co-workers online. He is the nicest guy you could ever meet and he recently told me that he wants a divorce because of it. She starts arguements if he doesn't come right home, won't let him go out with friends, has a GPS program on his cell phone so she can track him on the internet constantly, and even takes money out of his account and puts it in her personally one at the bank she works at so he doesn't have access to it. As you can see her actions pushed him away and she got worse to try and keep someone who didn't want to be with her. This isn't what you want. You want to be in a relationship where you are happy and you can have fun with someone you love. If you don't trust someone then you can't be with them. It might be best if you take some time to yourself and just have fun to take your mind off bad relationships and help you realize that instead of spending your time digging through his personal stuff you could spend it doing something fun and that way your next relationship will be better. Also, do you have any friends who are guys. They might be able to give you some advice as to why he might be acting any way that would make you suspicious. I've always had my go-to guy that helps me with relationship stuff. If you have a guy figure you can trust it also makes you more trusting of men in general because you realize that not all of them are pigs.
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