My answer though i'm not sure how true it is (other than for me) is that we don't go into anything half heartedly with anything else we do in life. I was taught to fight and not give up. I was taught to stand strong when things got hard. I was not raised in a two parent home, so at times I think it makes things harder. Since I don't have that visual on how things are supposed to be. However I was raised by a very strong man...who taught me to see the possibilities in everything. To see what others do not see and build on it. In other areas in my life it has caused great success and is a wonderful asset.
So here is the thing...
I believe that we fall in love with the representative...
That we are so swept away by the best assets that are first shown (because they are trying to impress..every body does it..except me I am what i am..lol) so when the times come and we see the real person we think...where did he go, where did the person I fell in love with go, wanting and wishing they would return..we decide to be patient and wait it out, stay strong...WRONG MOVE!!! We don't give up in any other way..so how are we to know when we should actually give up
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Everything I'm not makes me Everything I am
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