Okay, I didn't want to post on here again, but thought I should just incase anybody really cares. I got the DNA results in the mail on Sat. and so he prob. got them then too. Yes, he is 99.99% her father, so yes, even if our relationship is no longer...I will unfortuantely always be connected to him in that way. Yes, you may think that I regret the entire situation....but I don't. I regret the initial start to it and how it ended, but I certainly don't regret my daughter! She is beautiful, smart, and amazing no matter who her dad is. I am a grown woman and I will live no matter how bad things get; unfortunatley I'm sure that he isn't thinking about the effects this will have on her. She is the important one! She is the one who should be thought of first and taken care of no matter what! I did have good times in that 3 years and I will have to count on them to get me through because when she gets older and I have to explain things; I will tell her that we loved each other and that she is loved and wanted no matter how things ended up with her "biological" father. She has my ex-husband that is there for her like a man should be for his kids and she will always be loved and taken care of by me! I am glad if you all feel that your "examples" have helped me or others, that is a good thing. I really don't feel like it has helped me, but it doesn't matter what I think. I am just glad that no matter how much denial him and his family want to be in...I have done all I can to get him to step up to the plate and at least take care of her financially. You can deny DNA in your head, but the court won't allow you to deny it financially. I feel like I have been thrown away, but I will never allow my child to feel the same way! NO matter what happens next, if he wants visitation or not, ect... She will always be told that she is extremely special and she is my baby and always will be! Thanks from those of you that have just wished me luck, and for everyone who just thinks I am stupid for getting into this situation...please don't throw stones if you have never been in my shoes. I prob. would never have thought of myself in this situation 5 years ago, but life happens and you can NEVER SAY NEVER. I am going to live and move on even if they stay in the puddle of denial they are in forever. We will be okay, there is no other way about it. I have and always will do ANYTHING for my kids and she will always be my amazing little girl! If anything changes I will prob. update this just incase anyone cares. Again, thanks to those who just wanted to help.