As a maturing woman, not a young girl I come with the question, Is there such a thing as a soul mate? Does one truly have the ability to meet their one true love? I want to believe that I have experienced that true love. But the sad thing is that he is no longer in my life. I love him still after all these years. And he has said he still loves me. But we still remain apart. How can I get him back? Should I? Or how do I finally get over him (for my own emotional health)?