Even if you cross this bridge and it doesn't occur, it will next time won't it... She is angry for some reason at you and wants to destroy.
Your children are teenagers, it should be your choice when you decide to tell them that they have a brother somewhere and the circumstances, and perhaps it should be your sister's decision if she goes out and partys and leaves her children, it's her life not yours.
So, I would offer the above words to her via an email.
And, I would say to her let's leave it at that... You live your life and your skeletons and I'll live mine and I make this a pact.
See what she comes back with.
But, I strongly recommend if it works that you should sit your kids down when you feel they're stable enough to learn and tell them, they would resent you more for not, than they will for telling them and you can say that you wanted to wait until they were old enough to make their own decisions as an Adult as to whether they want to find and locate their half brother or let it be, as to why you waited.
CW
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Women are Angels
And when someone breaks our wings....
We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick...
We are flexible like that ....
White Witch.
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