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Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork
For texasreds case, if your wife was one way and then became another ... thats a different story all together. But I do find it hard to understand how someone can fake an interest in sex until they are married then suddenly turn off the acting and expect the other person to be happy with that. Weird.
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I think this happens with both genders. In some cases it's a calculated means of "getting" someone who may have money or perceived social status that is desired. I dealt with one side of this, dated a man who told me I was "ideal" for him, except to do what he wanted in life he had to marry a woman who had money and social connections. Fortunately I wasn't in love with him. Last I heard he was engaged to an attorney heiress. He either fooled her or she was in line with what he wanted and wanted a husband with those aspirations.
Some people can completely disconnect from emotion to get what they think they want.