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Originally Posted by catherine87
Thank you for your comments, Ian will watch porn on his own when im not here to get him in the mood for as he calls it good sex!!!
This doesnt bother me, however when im out of control horny and he is not in the mood it ends with Ian sleeping on the sofa. I know this doesnt make our relationship look very good but it is fantastic we both love sex he says he is too tired at night with working early, i understand this but i wish he would take my needs into account sometimes.
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If hes watching porn to get him 'in the mood' then not using said mood on you because he's too tired, its kind of counter-productive. A wise young man on this board once told me and I agree... guy's don't watch porn to frustrate themselves.
That doesn't mean some don't watch it, to get excited then have sex with their partner... but if he's not having sex with you , I would guess he's spending up his energy.
Once a week for a 35 year old guy seems to be a bit off in the desire department. He's likely masturbating. And thats fine, just if he layed off a bit he might have more of a need for sex with you... EVEN if he's tired.