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Originally Posted by Miwako
Me and my boy have been dating for almost two years, so it's pretty serious. I live with my mom still and he lives with his parents. Well, recently he has started talking to an old friend of his. I like his friend, but he calls my bf every single day wanting to hang out and spend the night at my bf's house. Sometimes I help my bf come up with excuses as to why he can't come over on a certain night. I've started feeling bad, so I told my bf that until he balls up and decides what he wants to do with this problem, I'm not spending the night at his house anymore. I feel like I'm making him choose, but I'm tired of helping make up excuses every night and if we get married, I do not want his friend spending the night at my house every single night. Am I wrong by pushing him to make his own decisions ???
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A lot of times, fellas want to hang out w/their "boy" b/c they feel like the girlfriend is taking up all their time! Like the girlfriend is breaking up their "inner circle", so to speak.
I have to question why his friend wants to "spend the night" at his house. That's a just ridiculous. Doesn't his friend have a life???
If you see he doesn't have enough backbone to tell his friend to cool down on the dropping by of the house and spending the night, you best NOT marry him.
No backbone now makes you question if and when he will ever get one... and you don't want to wait until you're married for him to get one.