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I love him but he is not changing the only way he says he'll change when i say imma leave him I dont know what to do 
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At the beginning of every single relationship, people are on their best behaviour. It's when they settle into a relationship and feel safe, that they show their true colours.
He's lazy, he doesn't want to work, he doesn't have to work because your paying for everything as well as giving him accomodation... We in Australia use the word "Bum"... that's what he is. Sure, he will treat you right, your his "sugar mummy" okay not quite
But, do you see where I am coming from?
I would assume his family are very lazy as well and he wasn't bought up to get out there and make something of himself, he will just go through life mosing along.
The "fear" of having nothing, is why he quickly back tracks when you threaten to leave.
This guy is not going to help you get anywhere in life, he's going to drain you and it's time to move on, sorry... You deserve better right? You work hard right? He won't even help around the house...
Nothing you can do to change him, you have to change the situation and tell him to go home, it's over.
CW