07-05-2007, 11:34 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: MI
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What do you know about this man you want to marry?
IMO, sounds like he's already married!
How many times have you seen his place? What's the problem that he doesn't spend time with you at his place?
He doesn't like to go out with you & your friends. Ok, maybe he's shy.
He won't marry you -- after 8 years. He doesn't see why he should "put it on paper". Maybe he just wanted to have fun for 8 years and that's it.
Have you really checked into his background? Do you know for sure that he's not already married or even separated from a spouse?
If he's not willing to marry you and you don't want to keep waiting (I mean, after 8 years, I'd imagine you're tired of waiting) then let it go. It's up to you what you want to do... and you sound like you are sick-and-tired of waiting for what may never happen.
He sounds satisfied to keep things the way they are, and you want more of a commitment. Sounds like he's not able or willing to commit to what you want.
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