Thanks blue moon. He says he does not want to marry because a piece of paper does not make the fact that he loves me any different. Because he
has learned a lot from other peoples experiences and he says that when people marry they fight about money and fight about other things. After work they are tired and grouchy and have no time for one another. That if he were to marry me, I would not see him any more then now. He owns his own business and works night and we would not see each other much. Before he said that he has no money because he sends to his family in another country and wants to eventually bring them here for the wedding and to live with us in a house together. He switches reasons and I am not sure but they all sound like excuses sometimes. I have explained to him how I feel but he still will not marry me. I do not understand. He know I will leave him if he does not marry me and he is willing to accept that. I am so confused. He is willing to let me go because his reasons not to marry me are more important to him. I love him so much but do not know what to do. Am I prolonging my suffering? Any help would be great. Thanks.