I have been married for 4 years.
It is not the parties I miss in fact I am a homebody.
My husband has anxiety when placed in a social situation unless they are good friends. I encourage him invite his friends over and a guy's night while I make myself scarce or have a girl's night. If I do arrange a group to come over which is rare because he does not want to see people very often, it cannot be more than two.
Yes, there are solutions to everything I agree. At this point I am tired and exhausted. I had to fight with my husband countless times before I got him into the hospital which the surgeon was very lucky because by that time one of discs ruptured.
That is not the only thing. I guess I am tired of trying to help my husband to be healthy when he does not want it.
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