07-11-2007, 01:45 PM
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When you recall the 'good times' go back before the
event and after the event. Not just those minutes
of pleasure.
For example;
R always remembered that moment when G entered
the hotel room. She forgot how she travelled
alone because G had told his friend W that he'd
come to his party that night.
R & G were supposed to go to city for a reason
but R rode down alone, because G had told W that
he'd come to his party.
When R thought of how beautiful and blessed it
was when G entered that room, she forgot how
horrible and lonely she had felt on the long
ride down.
She forgot that G was someone who would often
pull this kind of 'stunt' in which he'd put
someone or something before her.
R had literally obliterated that lonely ride
to the hotel. But when she began to link it
with his entrance into the hotel room, both
began to pale.
Her 'great' moment turned into nothing, her
lonely time turned into nothing.
M always recalled that lovely day at the beach.
She forgot how when they got home he rinsed off
his skin and ran out to watch the game at someone
else's house.
She always had that morning, the nice way he spoke
how sexy she felt, as the romantic pinnacle of
their relationship.
When she had to recall how he'd run out, she began
to appreciate that maybe he was nice to her so that
she'd let him get her home early, (making her think
of sex) so that he could go to the game.
It is this kind of 'spiking' of memory which is
necessary to get you out of love.
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