Hey just in a relationship for the first time in a long time with a guy that I thought was worth it when we were first dating he was polite, funny and took the time to get to know me. But it feels like he and I have so many different views on things I am more open to people who are different he has some closed views. I am forever shaking my head at the things that come out of his mouth that seem harsh or judgemental.
I guess I am asking what is the standard that should be set for ourselvs when we are trying to accept some one in to our space,How much do we compromise in a relationship to have some one in our lives.
He has also lost a home in the past to some one who he was engaged to so he is very anti marrage/anti kids/anti living with some one again.
We are both 27 and it seems that all of the above kind of come in when you are in a committed relationship.
And even though It is a very new relationship I am concerned that these things will get in the way. I guess I am a bit of a worry wort and do over analise things would be nice to get the out side oppinions