Wow,

thank you so much for the insight I GUESS we know these things when we are typing it out but it is getting on to the reality that is the key.
I am taking your advice and getting out and doing my own thing I should not have problems with that as I have always done that any way, so here it is getting ready for the single life again.
I know my advice would be the same as yours but it is a different thing when you are on the boat and heading away from the main land!
Thanks I do love this discussion forum