Well here it is I did end up breaking it of with the boyfriend and it went so very different to the way I HAD thought it would. He was actually very mature about it even though he was upset we chatted for some time and He told me that all of the stuff he had said about not WANTING kids/weddings/living with some one was a bit of a thing for his mates and that he just was not used to having a girlfriend and did not know how to act.
I mentioned that he needed to be a bit more positive, because his negitive stuff made it easy for me to make my descision.
I feel a little empty now and wonder about it (the empty feeling)
He did say it was wierd that we were ending it rather well and that I am the only girl he has wanted to stay friends with. So I guess that is a good thing.