You should read ALL of Kaylar's posts on the subject. And the women whose husbands have cheated but have never left them. And the women who have been the mistress for years and years who haven't ever seen him leave her.
I believe Kaylar had a 2-week rule. If the divorce proceedings don't start within 2 weeks of that promise, it's bull.
I'm 19 as well and my boyfriend is older ... he's 22 and we have problems with being in different parts of our lives. How do you relate to someone over the age of 40?
Please see the warning signs. Becoming disappointed in yourself when you realize he's used you is a much heavier price to pay than leaving a man you're infatuated with in the dust.
I was sort of waiting for someone else to respond before posting anything ... this topic's been done to death around here.