Withoutyou,
We'd love it if you responded or let us know how you were faring. We don't mean to be jumping down your throat, it's just that this sort of topic, like we said, is constantly going in these forums and we have all been reading Kaylar's advice (well, maybe not everybody, but it seems everyone responding has been )
In the end, it is your life and your decision; we want you to make the one that will hurt least in the LONG RUN. So, please let us know how you are. We wonder