i understand where you are coming from but why dont you talk to your grandma and tell her how you are trying raise her and the rules you have for her and tell her to help you out not bring you down and about not going to grandmas house everyday well maybe you can limit the time she is there but dont separate your daughter from your grandparents because then its going to create a problem and your grandma is going to get hurt i just think it would be best to talk to you grandma I'm sure she would understand!