08-14-2007, 09:38 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: MI
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U R right: she doesn't know everything
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No one knows everything.
Steph is right when she says that maybe you should talk to your Grandma and tell her that you've got rules and you're trying to raise your daughter a certain way. Surely, she can't go to school crying and wanting to get her way all the time!
That's exactly what your Grandma is setting her up for everytime she undermines your authority and goes against your wishes when it comes to what you want for your child.
If she can't respect what you're trying to do, then you should limit her time with your Grandma because she is going against you.
This causes a child to become confused, and play "odds against the middle."
Simply put, your child will learn to use Grandma against you in order to get what she wants. She will also do this with other people as she gets older.
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