u cant help it that u have fallen for a guy that has a wife no one can help who they fall for . , the thing it to draw the line , he has to make a choose u of his wife , either way someone will lose someone they love , either u or he , i'm not agreeing that its right what yall two are doing , the thing is how long and why are u still his gf if he so called going to leave his wife , i dont think he will i think he is using u because he's lacking it at home . the thing is if this has been going on for a while then he's not leaving her ,he's just trying to make u stay around as long as he can make u ,and beside once a cheat always a cheat. and ur not helping , think about how his wife feels . and think about what if u was his wife and he was doing this to u and u didn't know.