I TELL MY SON THAT I UNDERSTAND THAT IT FEELS GOOD BUT THAT IT'S PRIVATE. WHEN I SEE HIM DOING IT I ASK HIM TO PLEASE GO SOMEWHERE PRIVATE TO DO THAT (LIKE HIS BEDROOM). i'M OF THE OPINION THAT SEXUALITY AND ITS EXPLORATION IS HEALTHY AND NATURAL BUT THAT BOUNDARIES MUST BE SET AS WITH ANY OTHER BEHAVIOR. BESIDES THAT, WHAT WE DO NOW AND HOW WE RESPOND SETS THE STAGE FOR THE TEEN YEARS. PERSONALLY, I HOPE FOR AN OPEN AND RESPECTFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM BY THEN - NO MATTER WHAT THE TOPIC.