Sorry to say I am right there with you,too.I am only 24 but I have no sex drive what so ever.The truth is I haven't had it since I got pregnant with my first baby in 1999.So I haven't had a sex drive since I was 16,and I shouldn't of had one then.I don't know what to do or what my problem is.I am confident and secure about my body so I know that's not it.I need help,too.I don't want to talk to my doctor about it because I don't want to sound silly.I have been married for eight years but my husband doesn't seem to have a problem with sex drive at all.It is just me.