09-27-2007, 10:19 AM
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Location: MI
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Originally Posted by BusyGirl16
I understand what you all are saying. I agree that she is definently mentally unstable. Thankfully she hasnt called in a few days! She left a crappy voicemail saying she doesnt understand why I dont answer my phone when she calls me and why Bryant can answer his dads phone calls but not hers.....but I am sure this isnt the end of it! Me and Bryant are planning a family "get-together" during our town's festival type thing. Should we invite her to be nice or should we exclude her until she quits acting the way she does? I dont want to be mean and not invite her but I also dont want her to come there with an attitude either and ruin time with our familes.....I haven't ever delt with anyone like this before and I dont know how I should handle things like this... Bryant wants to move far away, which would be good but I am really close with my family and I dont think I could do something drastic like that. I guess I am going to have to deal with it and come here to this wonderful website for advice! I really love this website and I dont know what I would do without it! Thank you all sooo very much!!!  |
Busy,
As you can see, everyone is happy to have you here!
Now about the family "get-together" during your town's "festival-type thing"....
Now whether you invite your b/f's mother or not, as long as she gets wind of you 2 having a gathering at such a public event as this, I guarantee she will be there ---and she will be madder than a wet hen!
Given what you've told us of her personality, she will take the opportunity to show off on you & Bryan.
She will tell all the world how horribly you have treated her; how you haven't answered her phone calls; she will say she only calls you because she CARES ABOUT YOU and you're not respecting her, you're not giving her the same consideration she gives you; she treats you sooooo well and you haven't done the same in return; and you even have her son not being bothered with her!!!! 
She definitely won't mention the ugly things she's said about you and/or left on your phone message .....
If you do invite her, she'll be prone to do this; if you don't, 9 times out of 10, she'll definitely do this!
The point is, Busygirl, she will show up anyway it goes. She sounds like she'll do it because she loves attention and she loves looking like she's the "good person" being ill-treated by her son's girlfriend.
I wish you all the best on this family get-together. 
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