Well, everyone we have made up our minds and we are not inviting her to the party. We had a talk and I told my b/f that I know this is his mother we are talking about and I dont mean to exclude her from things but she has to realize that she cant act this way to us! He said he has no problem with the way I am handling things. She has already started saying that we are treating her badly and she justs wants the best for her son.... which obviously isnt me... but anyways everyone that is going to be at the party knows how she is and will know that what she is saying is lies... so I am not too woried... I just dont like conflict and I dont have any good comebacks....when she says stuff to me i just sit there and take it....
1. Because I don't want to have a huge fight
2. Because I really don't know what to say at the time

Afterwards I can come up with things I should've said but when she is saying stuff to me I can't really think of anything else but "why would someone say something sooo mean to me?" Thankfully my mom is going to be there and won't let her say something too mean... if she does happen to show up.... My b/f just tells her to shut-up my mom would actually set her straight. My mom has never been around when his mom said stuff to me... one night when he still lived at home, my mom came to pick me up and right when I got in the car I started crying because of the stuff that was said. She almost turned the car around to go say something but for some reason I stopped her and nothing has ever been said... maybe this weekend will be a blessing and she will finally get set straight... or maybe it will make things worse...The other night I was soo upset I told my b/f I just wanted to runaway and never have to deal with her again... I think that finally made him realize how she is making me feel. Only 5 more days until the party...... Thank you all sooo much for helping me in the horrible situation! Ill keep you all posted!!!