My boyfriend has recenty bought a house.. his very first house! He is 24yrs old and moved out of his mother when he was 18 and was living in a trailer. After being together for a year we thought we should get a house together.. and that he needs to get out of a 25yr old trailor. He has an ok job for not graduating from Highschool.. he makes about 16 dollars an hour.. so he got approved for a pretty desent house. I was rly proud of him, and thought that he was growing with a new life and i was happy to be with him. Well i was talking to his mother a couple days after getting the house and she told me " you should take all his bills and do them for him". Honestly to me that is rediculous to help a 24 year old man with all his bills... I have my own to wry about! So I let him do it by himself... well guess what he payed for one month of his mortgage and then stopped paying for 4 MONTHS!!! He didnt even tell me until 4 months later and last month he got a 5,000 dollar loan and spent it all.. and he is about to loose his house!!! He spent all this money and I dont know what to say.. i just want to help him.. even though im angry and all he says is " IM ******".. what can i do.. he doesnt understand! I dont know how to tell him that he cannot do that...