Originally Posted by Fallen1

Thanks for that different point of view. Seems to help lighten up things when you get someone else's perspective on a situation.

As for the forcing himself, I think when I posted this thread I sort of felt that way and that's why I was so upset - thinking he had after he had turned me down. We were able to talk about it when I got home and I expressed that I had gotten that impression. After hearing his side, I think that it all boiled down to the fact that I was half asleep and I really was unable to make it clear enough to him that I wanted to be left alone.