This is my first post and I know its a womans site but I have been reading stuff for a couple of weeks so i signed up. Anyway my in laws live next door, we bought land from them at pretty much the going price at the time.At first it seemed like an ok idea, 10 years ago. But now with 2 kids, 13 and 9 whenever we as a family take a vacation they somehow find the time to go with us.Even thats not so bad but lately in the last 3 years it seems my wife is catering the their whims and not our own familys.my inlaws are in there mid 70's. So for me my question to anyone who would way in, should i feel let feeling like a second fiddle bother me or just deal with it?