imaconfusedfemale,

He was a boyfriend from junior high school. He's been away for some time and now he's returned to make you his wife and the mother of his children? But if you're supposed to be his 'future bride', wouldn't he want to talk to you, see how you're doing throughout the day? That's what people in a committed relationship usually do. It doesn't sound like there's much of a relationship here. He seems to be preoccupied with something or someone else. You have to think about what makes this guy so great, other than the thought of being married to him. Ask him about why he doesn't call you and the MySpace friend, and anything else about him that you're concerned about. Why waste your time waiting to see what happens? You'll just continue to be 'a confused female'.