"simplyme" is this the same b/f that you still live with, sleep with, and have sex with? i'm not sure that all those situations constitutes a break-up..(i'm not judging i'm just going by your earlier posts)..i agree with "little".. play the field and meet new men or continue seeing your first love, but take things SLOW..getting into a physical relationship with some one new if you are still involved with your ex will cause you more anxiety than you appear ready to handle right now..