Originally Posted by poudrier2083

Ok so my man and i have been together now since January, almost a year now!

But one thing is bothering me terribly... in the beginning and even now, he calls his ex's voicemail a few times a month to listen to her voicemails.. now he has always told me hes making sure his mother isnt still inviting her over and so on.. and i think its ****ing retarded giving weve been together 10 months now, his mother knows were together, shes not going to invite his ex over and hasnt ever, because whenever i call him out on it, hes like well my mom isnt calling her, but i still want to be ahundred percent....... i mean what is going on here.. is he still hung up on her? does he just wanna hear her **** voice? is he just plain nosy?? oh and another thing, why in the does he go look at her myspace a few times A WEEK.... he claims he just wants to see a picture of her new man? which she has put up before, so ok hes seen what her new guy looks like(not that he should care) so he doesnt need to do that ****.. i havent ever gone and checked up on my ex or looked for him on myspace to ooogle over pix of him.. it just hurts to always have in the back of my mind knowing hes doing this..and i always get so upset and cry my eyes out because i tell him i think maybe he still likes her or finds her cute or something.. but yet he still does it... do i just try and deal with it and maybe someday stop? because he does know how much it hurts me. so really no point in saying anymore to him... i mean its been how long? it totally sucks and hurts at the same time and i just need some advice and hoping this helps me feel alittle better, i think aobut this stuff all the time... and im sure some of you might say they have a thing going on but i know thats not the case, she would be calling him and texting him all the time like she did in the beginning and finally in July he did what i asked and called her and told her to move on because for the first 7 months of our relationship OMG! this girl just didnt get it.. or maybe she didnt know he had a new girlfriend..me...